"Judgement"

I have been called judgmental before, and whenever I was, I got so frustrated because I know that I am not a judgmental person. I uncovered the reason why in a conversation with a good friend of mine; I come off as judgmental when I react to peoples' behavior, words, etc., and I don't understand.

For Example:
Friend: I went to a party last night, I got so wasted...
Me: o.O that doesn't sound like very much fun

I came off as judgmental, because of that I said. When really, I wasn't judging them. I know that people are going to make their choices and everyone deserves to be accepted but when I say something like that, it might make someone feel judged.

So if I ever say anything remotely close to that to you, I am sorry. I'm not judging you, I simply do not understand why what you said, or did was appealing, a smart move, etc. It's simply my view on it.

Example:
Friend: She's lesbian
Me: Bleehhhh....

I don't judge gay people, I just don't understand because I am personally not attracted to girls.

(p.s I am working on this)