Friday, December 17, 2010

Haters (:

I have them! And you want to know the funniest part? The people who hate me either do not know me, or those who are jealous of my life.
I am not boastful, nor am I a b*tch, but it's kind of funny to me when people say they don't like me they have zero evidence to back it up.
Anyone that I've met or hung out with doesn't have a problem with me, with the exception of my ex friends who didn't like me around because I was constant reminder of what they were doing wrong.
That's beside the point.
I have an amazing life and I am constantly talking about it.
So, with people on the outside looking in, why shouldn't jealousy trigger a hate?

People don't understand that I care about everyone with a genuine heart. It doesn't matter who they are.
How do I prove that? How do I show it? How can I possibly let everyone know I am not as bad as I seem or what others make me out to be? I don't know what to do!
It doesn't bother me when people don't like me, fine, don't like me. But keep it to yourself, instead of feeling the need to be rude or make stupid comments.
Has anyone ever said "no one likes you!" ? UGH! So annoying beyond all things. Do you know what that is? It's a cop-out. People don't have a real reason to dislike someone so they say that. Plus, in all reality it makes them look dumb because that means they're just doing what everyone else is doing.
There's this good quote by Paris Hilton (normally I disagree with everything she says or does but this is good)
"If people want to hate you for no reason, let them. 'Cause obviously they are either insecure, jealous, or simply a bitch."

 The reality is that emotions or hurt is what causes haters to hate. My personal issue isn't the boastful look of "oh I'm better than them," but it's why can't we be friends so that you can possibly see it's easy to make yourself happy.
I would welcome anyone to be my friends, no matter what they said about me, what they looked like, or what they smelled like.
But do the people who "dislike" me, know that? No because they've never taken time to figure it out.


So, if you're a hater, stop. What you're doing is showing the entire world what your heart looks like. When happiness comes from your lips and actions, everyone knows you're happy. When negative things are constantly happening, people can automatically know that you're a sad person who has nothing else to do, but hate :)

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