Honestly, we don't always know what we want, and it can be more frustrating for us than someone dealing with us. We always know what we want at the most inconvenient time possible-- typically when we cannot get it.
WHY?
My guess is because when we're looking for a man, or when a man is looking for us, they do everything to make us happy even though we cannot pinpoint exactly what that is...they simply, DO IT.
This is just my opinion though. Ever since I dated a guy in high school who changed things he did and bought me things, and asked me questions to get to know me, I have always just wanted things to come naturally.
For example: I'd rather a guy notice my favorite color is green as opposed to him asking me what my favorite color and remembering, like he asks questions. There's nothing wrong with asking questions but the amount of effort is different. Anyone can ask what my favorite color is, but can he just notice?
The thing is, is guys like to complain about girls and how "complicated" they are, but what guys don't realize is how much they like a challenge and when things come easy, it's not rewarding and they aren't interested for very long at all.
I've never believed in someone trying very hard to "get a girl". I'm such a brat when it comes to, well, everything but in this case, if a guy thinks I'm pretty and wants to take me on a date I'll accept and get to know him but if he isn't someone I click with or if he doesn't make me laugh (that's a big one) then I am not going to want to go on a second date, or be his girlfriend.
I really hope girls agree with me on this, but I don't believe in someone getting someone else to "fall" for them, I mean that's exactly why relationships don't last when they're based on looks. Someone could honestly be beautiful to a guy but be totally annoying or stupid, not making him happy at all.
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